Why do woman try with all their might to please men. Why do some men have to be so arrogant? I mean blatantly arrogant. I saw a show about a woman. A beautiful successful woman whose husband was cheating basically because he wasn't getting the attention he felt he deserved in the marriage after the kids were born. Well boo hoo, I get it . I don't do the same things for my husband that I did for him when we were first married. However, you can bet I don't get the things I need and do twice as much now as I did before the marriage. Well then this guy made a list to compare her with the other woman. He gave it to her and she followed it to a "T". What he wanted her to do was get bigger boobs, go blonde blah blah blah. All to save her marriage and she did it!
Moving on. A while back there was female model that was murdered. Her husband stuffs her in a garbage container and cuts off her fingers and takes out her teeth. This was done so no one would identify her. She was finally identified through her breast implants. Did she really get those implants for herself or for the world to see? The offending husband's ex girlfriend tells a tale of a man beyond arrogance. With an ego so well endowed that there had to be something less endowed. She mentions that at one point he wanted to marry her only to have an open marriage. Now I am not totally against an open marriage, but I think for the wrong people it can be very illogical, and for that matter why get married at all. Quite frankly it has to be a truly unique situation. This guy however, only reason I can surmise needed to stroke that ego, and the only way to get that constantly is to drum up new blood.
In the end it really is all the same. It never seems to work out well when you loose who you are. You die , you kill yourself, you kill someone else, you go to jail etc. etc. etc. ....
I too once had this need to please someone like this. I went as far as loosing weight till I was anorexic, dyeing my hair and anything and everything to please. I quickly realized that it was never going to be good enough for this person. NEVER. I wish in some ways I hadn't wasted my time, but then I would have never known to spot his type a mile away.
I wish for you is that you to will learn how to spot this species a mile away and then turn around and run the other way.
Moving on. A while back there was female model that was murdered. Her husband stuffs her in a garbage container and cuts off her fingers and takes out her teeth. This was done so no one would identify her. She was finally identified through her breast implants. Did she really get those implants for herself or for the world to see? The offending husband's ex girlfriend tells a tale of a man beyond arrogance. With an ego so well endowed that there had to be something less endowed. She mentions that at one point he wanted to marry her only to have an open marriage. Now I am not totally against an open marriage, but I think for the wrong people it can be very illogical, and for that matter why get married at all. Quite frankly it has to be a truly unique situation. This guy however, only reason I can surmise needed to stroke that ego, and the only way to get that constantly is to drum up new blood.
In the end it really is all the same. It never seems to work out well when you loose who you are. You die , you kill yourself, you kill someone else, you go to jail etc. etc. etc. ....
I too once had this need to please someone like this. I went as far as loosing weight till I was anorexic, dyeing my hair and anything and everything to please. I quickly realized that it was never going to be good enough for this person. NEVER. I wish in some ways I hadn't wasted my time, but then I would have never known to spot his type a mile away.
I wish for you is that you to will learn how to spot this species a mile away and then turn around and run the other way.
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